broke up! how to keep your smile

Faced with the sad reality of a love you thought was forever gone, it may feel as if your whole world is suddenly turning upside down. From that moment on, you will have to face life with a new attitude, and find that there is no him (her) in your daily life. However, if you want to keep in touch with each other, or be friends or be lovers again, you must maintain your dignity and demeanor, even when you are very painful and unhappy, you must not lose your dignity and demeanor. If, you are going through lovelorn now, so please remember to keep sober and optimistic.

1. Within two weeks, do not take the initiative to contact. If the other party takes the initiative to contact you, you should also briefly end the other party, and don't emphasize the problem between you again, or blame the other party.

2. If you think you want to say something to the other party, then buy a notebook and write down your feelings and what you want to say. Even if you have written the address on the envelope, remember not to send it go out. It's just a way to express your thoughts and feelings. One day, you'll be glad you didn't tell the other person what you thought.

3. Remember to thank the other party for walking so many roads with me and sharing so much happiness with you. And wish each other more happiness in the future.

4. Don't keep talking to yourself about the problem, and don't keep pestering your friends. It is not healthy to dwell on the unpleasantness or negativity of the past for a long time. If you want to spend time with friends, then do more active or creative activities to keep yourself busy.

5. Once you can focus on your new life, then you are giving yourself a chance to get back on the road and live another life. What would a new life be like? You can certainly do things you’ve always wanted to do, but didn’t have time to do because you were with your ex, and you can do them now.

6. To admit this failed love, I am also responsible. However, love is of course two-way, and there is no need to complain about what you did and what the other party didn't do. Analyze which love or which type of object you are more suitable for.

7. If the other party wants to give you one more chance and get back together, don't agree right away. Think carefully about whether the original problem has been solved. If the original problems still exist, you will face a breakup again shortly after the reunion.

8. If the other party already has a new partner, try to avoid meeting them. You must know that if the other party already likes someone else, then he (she) cannot be the one you are looking for. This means that the other half you are looking for is still waiting for you.